Life is like Hair

Feelings and well being are like hair

You can have your hair short, grow them long, get a perm, straighten them. try out what ever  that you like, pretty much do what ever you want with them 😃 but it's still hair, still you

it's tons of sides so

Allow yourself to be mad be sad be hurtful be confident be jealous be happy be dull be bright... Do whatever you wanna.

Mistakes? don't be afraid to make them. You can come back to the places you've been to. Don't hold back. It's everything and nothing.. and this and that.

Life (and the way you are perceived by others) is full of missunderstandings,- of little lies and big lies because it has so many different sides and there is barely ONE side (to
how you are). So don't get caught up on whether you're right or wrong. you're always right and wrong

so what ever comes your way is a natural part of the world.

I like the idea that we exist in this world to gain experiences (of all kinds).

 

è I’ve always wanted to only be bright and cheerful, neglecting the sides of me that are sometimes also sad or hurtful or plain dull

è I think we should embrace all sides as part of who we can be and so are, these are actually not so much mistakes or flaws, they are a natural part of being human

è We can also always come back to being who we prefer to be: cheerful, happy etc

è Different versions of ourselves live in the heads of everyone, we are different to everyone

è The way we are perceived from others varies and the degree to which we seem right/wrong/bright/dull to others varies

è So don’t get caught up in trying to be absolutely right or bright for other people

è Allow yourself to be what you are in the moment, especially don’t try to force the shiny side all the time. Allow yourself a break of the energy level you think people want to see (high energy) and let your authentic self be.

 

 nettsie_mensch is my insta where, you can hear me talk about this :)

lots of love, Annetti